Underlying Of Love

Can two people walk together
without agreeing on the direction?

Friendship is where everything usually starts. There are lovers who’ve started out from pure friendship; some have used friendship as a stepping stone to something more intimate, there are some who have gained mutual understanding from innocent friendship. You can seldom hear a case of lovers turned into good friends, but there is. I heard lot of stories of good friendships ruined because they tried to get out of the line and started an intimate relationship. The most common mistake they’ve made I guess, is rushing things. Most of us have a friend or two that quickly “falls in love” with a new boyfriend/girlfriend or maybe you are that friend. One week they are “in love,” the next week they break up and are heartbroken, and in a few weeks they are madly “in love” with someone new and this creates a vicious, heartbreaking cycle. Funny, yet its just around us.

To avoid situations in which you might make mistakes,

may be the biggest mistake of all.

Why am I writing this? I don’t know really, hehe maybe because I am “in” a particular situation that can relate. Well, yes I think.. Let’s just say I’m falling for someone now. And for the moment is still trying to figure out how to make my right way through for I am a stranger to her. Two decades of living, it made me think I’ve already met everyone who will play a great part in my life. Or if I’ll get to know someone better, he/she was atleast an acquaintance of mine already, although life always has something new to offer. To see one stranger from the crowd and feel a strong attraction is normal. But to know someone not personally and to feel like I can’t get enough unless I get to know her more before we even have the chance to meet, is one of a kind. For a socially awkward guy like me to have gained courage to approach someone I don’t know, it must be His will? haha I cant say for sure, I might be hallucinating.

When a young man complains that a young lady has no heart,

it is a pretty certain sign that she has his.

Our sweet nothings over the phone, and through messages flatters my heart, though I am well aware I should not assume a bit. Soaring high can result serious damage when it crash. Romance is a beautiful thing. I believe though that friendship, however, is what causes relationships to last. Slowly but surely I will make a strong foundation for our friendship from this early on. Everybody would want their husband/wife to be their best friend, am I right? I wish I could make her feel she have found someone that she really enjoy talking with. I learned that people, with any kind of relationship will spend more time talking with each other than doing anything else together, and from talking they build affection, love, respect, and trust..

No one really listens to anyone else,

and if you try it for a while you'll see why..

Trust, is what one should establish well in every relationship. Don’t you agree? Being trustworthy is a virtue, but being too trusting is not. Trust must be earned. If it is lost, it must be regained slowly. I am sure she won’t be too quick to give her heart to someone. I must wait and make sure I really deserve her trust. This is true for any type of relationship. As we mature we will grow in our ability to recognize trustworthy people. There are few people in my life that I can trust with my heart, problems, my money—everything. I have this kind of relationship with them because they have

clearly demonstrated their honesty and faithfulness over time. So then I must clearly show her I am someone worth to be trusted with all of her.

If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head.

If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.

You might find this writing full of assumptions, well.. its only me, being a positive person. Im taking the risks, again. Not because Im desperate, not because I love trouble.. But because I really do believe that in life, we do not get to our destination by chance, but we choose our direction by choice. Regret is not when we fail, but when we quit without even trying.

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