Falling in Love is quite easy…
Sustaining being In Love is a challenge,
But getting over a Love, you don’t ever want to end is suicide…
Almost everyone would agree that maintaining a good relationship is hard. Not just hard I guess. From one’s ability to engage and handle conflicts effectively, to figuring out how to balance your time well, to constructing messages and conversations to reveal our darkest sides skillfully to make one accept it; trying to make a relationship succeed sure was exhausting at times. And, have you ever forgotten to consider all of the routine activities that we engage in to maintain our bond? We may not even realize it when we're doing it, but many daily occurrences have a significant impact of the status and stability of a relationship.
Respect those who can give you time despite of their tight schedule… But truly love those, who don’t even see their schedule when you need them.
Conversation for instance a very normal way of communicating, yet if we only look carefully-talking and listening to each other about the day's ups and downs really have an important role in gaining positive emotions we both share and the feelings of closeness – sense of being at ease with you, and you to me, this is not just limited to our end-of-day discussions, all of those other little chats through out the day counts too. Whether we're telling each other our simplest whereabouts, our time spent with some specific person and how our mood was, discussing our plans for the rest of the day and in the morrow were all important, those routine talk is beneficial to our relationship in more ways than one; yes we're not even committed, and maybe you're thinking I'm being too much here making you feel obliged of such things. But this is not about commitment, but about a relationship- however you might call ours...
Everyone can hear you; some may have the time to talk to you.
But only few know how to listen.
Presence; a very important matter to keep a relationship working, spending some time together by doing things with one another, grabbing a bite to eat, going on vacation, or even watching a movie on the couch together all have the ability to strengthen a relationship but we never had it, we cannot have it.. Not yet, but not never, am I right? I may look like a fool being so stubborn and you may have felt fed up of how I’m trying to stay in touch with you… But this is the least that we could do to at least maintain the feelings… They say that romance keeps half of the foundation of a relationship, and since we are not yet able to have some romance to sustain to, I must say, our bond is weak – the spark you’d felt from the start may easily fade… But putting positivity in it, maybe if only we could stand strong and work through this kind of relationship steady with just half the foundation, what more if the time comes that finally we could be together?
Patience, I have enough of it to keep on going, with no one else but you…
Finding someone to fall in love with is nice…
But finding someone who would keep you falling in love even after you’ve fallen,
is irreplaceable.
Offering assurances is an excellent way to increase feelings of satisfaction, happiness, and liking, telling your partner how you feel about him or her and about your relationship can enhance the quality of your bond. Whether you're saying "I love you" or showing your partner that you're committed by telling him or her that you're "in it to win it," That is why I keep on reminding you how much I feel, and I never will get tired of expressing it. Yes I cannot prove it yet, I cannot give you much of an stable assurance, but I know that I’ve nothing to gain asking you to believe in a lie, I’m just being honest to myself. I always will.
You may not see it; you may not feel it…
But I know deep within me,
You’re going to be the last woman that I’ll ever love.
They say, that the most important tactic or practice for maintaining ongoing romantic involvements- and one that is more commonly overlooked- is Positivity, Optimism. One simply cannot overstate the significance of approaching interactions with one another with a positive frame of mind, and doing what you can to lift a partner's spirits on a daily basis through sweet statements, notes, corny jokes, etc. Honestly I am not a positive person, I pity myself and I seldom appreciate the things around me. I have my own world, in solitary. I had relationships, but most of the times I would care less on maintaining the feelings and fixing the problems for them, I’m not patient enough. But as we had our relationship, I learned to be the most optimistic and realistic person for you. I may feel bad, complain and try to change your mind sometimes but I always respect your every decision. I know I’m not perfect, am no good. I’m not even forcing you to be as positive as me, but I keep on asking you for one thing; If you cannot go on for some moments, let me carry you, but don’t walk back. If you cannot believe something, it doesn't mean that I’m telling a lie. A little affection is enough, because I might always come positive, but similarly, the damage wrought by complaining, insulting, sulking, and other forms of your negativity is profound and poisonous to us – and it deeply hurts me.
Instead to despise that the roses have thorns,
You could appreciate that the thorns have roses.
Including a little humor into our daily routine is a wonderful addition to any relationship. Playful teasing, inside jokes, and even joking during arguments should help keep relationships going and maybe even help to repair some that may be heading otherwise. And Like I’ve said, humor is also a way to say something serious, know when you should laugh, try to listen sometimes. Same as your dear friend have told you, you could appreciate someone more, when you let them speak, and you start listening, without laughing.
If you can’t share a laugh with your man,
You can’t share a life, together…
I don’t intend on writing this to give you sermons or to conscience you. I’m just sharing, and expressing. Cause for now, talks can’t be enough, explanations won’t suffice, and having some opportunity to speak with you doesn’t always mean I will be understood.
Finding someone to fall in love with is nice…
But finding someone who would keep you falling in love even after you’ve fallen,
is irreplaceable.
Offering assurances is an excellent way to increase feelings of satisfaction, happiness, and liking, telling your partner how you feel about him or her and about your relationship can enhance the quality of your bond. Whether you're saying "I love you" or showing your partner that you're committed by telling him or her that you're "in it to win it," That is why I keep on reminding you how much I feel, and I never will get tired of expressing it. Yes I cannot prove it yet, I cannot give you much of an stable assurance, but I know that I’ve nothing to gain asking you to believe in a lie, I’m just being honest to myself. I always will.
You may not see it; you may not feel it…
But I know deep within me,
You’re going to be the last woman that I’ll ever love.
They say, that the most important tactic or practice for maintaining ongoing romantic involvements- and one that is more commonly overlooked- is Positivity, Optimism. One simply cannot overstate the significance of approaching interactions with one another with a positive frame of mind, and doing what you can to lift a partner's spirits on a daily basis through sweet statements, notes, corny jokes, etc. Honestly I am not a positive person, I pity myself and I seldom appreciate the things around me. I have my own world, in solitary. I had relationships, but most of the times I would care less on maintaining the feelings and fixing the problems for them, I’m not patient enough. But as we had our relationship, I learned to be the most optimistic and realistic person for you. I may feel bad, complain and try to change your mind sometimes but I always respect your every decision. I know I’m not perfect, am no good. I’m not even forcing you to be as positive as me, but I keep on asking you for one thing; If you cannot go on for some moments, let me carry you, but don’t walk back. If you cannot believe something, it doesn't mean that I’m telling a lie. A little affection is enough, because I might always come positive, but similarly, the damage wrought by complaining, insulting, sulking, and other forms of your negativity is profound and poisonous to us – and it deeply hurts me.
Instead to despise that the roses have thorns,
You could appreciate that the thorns have roses.
Including a little humor into our daily routine is a wonderful addition to any relationship. Playful teasing, inside jokes, and even joking during arguments should help keep relationships going and maybe even help to repair some that may be heading otherwise. And Like I’ve said, humor is also a way to say something serious, know when you should laugh, try to listen sometimes. Same as your dear friend have told you, you could appreciate someone more, when you let them speak, and you start listening, without laughing.
If you can’t share a laugh with your man,
You can’t share a life, together…
I don’t intend on writing this to give you sermons or to conscience you. I’m just sharing, and expressing. Cause for now, talks can’t be enough, explanations won’t suffice, and having some opportunity to speak with you doesn’t always mean I will be understood.
